My wife loves me... and I her!
There's a good twenty or thirty minutes of foreplay involved and then she tells me she has to rest so it isn't just 4 hours of physical attention - a lot of emotional stuff that we both enjoy. You know paddle, ropes, and general play. That's why she has to be worn out before I untie her.

S & M huh....Ya ought to try it the other way around.

Vince wrote:

Four hours, twice a day...WOW, you’re a better man than me Paul.

We both like me in control and she likes having no control.
Whatever works is good as long as it is based on trust.