HuntingNut
HuntingNut
   Login or Register
HomeCommunity ForumsPhoto AlbumsRegister
     
 

User Info

Welcome Anonymous


Membership:
Latest: eeschunerronni
New Today: 0
New Yesterday: 1
Overall: 12471

People Online:
Members: 2
Visitors: 71
BOT: 4
Total: 77
Who Is Where:
 Members:
01: Dawgdad > Private Messages
02: English Mike > Forums
 Visitors:
01: Forums
02: Forums
03: Photo Albums
04: Forums
05: Home
06: Forums
07: Forums
08: Forums
09: Forums
10: Forums
11: Forums
12: Forums
13: Forums
14: Forums
15: Forums
16: Forums
17: Forums
18: Forums
19: Forums
20: Forums
21: Photo Albums
22: Forums
23: Forums
24: Forums
25: Forums
26: Forums
27: Photo Albums
28: Forums
29: Forums
30: Forums
31: News
32: Forums
33: Forums
34: Forums
35: Forums
36: Forums
37: Forums
38: Forums
39: Forums
40: Forums
41: Forums
42: Forums
43: Forums
44: Forums
45: Forums
46: Forums
47: Photo Albums
48: Forums
49: Forums
50: Forums
51: Forums
52: Forums
53: Photo Albums
54: Your Account
55: Forums
56: Forums
57: Forums
58: Forums
59: Forums
60: Forums
61: Forums
62: Forums
63: Forums
64: Forums
65: Forums
66: Forums
67: Forums
68: Forums
69: Forums
70: Forums
71: Photo Albums
  BOT:
01: Forums
02: Forums
03: Forums
04: Forums

Staff Online:

No staff members are online!
 

Coppermine Stats
Photo Albums
 Albums: 304
 Pictures: 2340
  · Views: 296199
  · Votes: 1302
  · Comments: 85
 

Support our Advertisers

Better!
Discussion that doesnt fit other Topics
Post new topic   Reply to topic   Printer Friendly Page    Forum Index » General

View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
Arron
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Nov 20, 2006
Posts: 351
Location: Cen.Iowa, by way of SWIowa

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 4:53 pm    Post subject: Better! Reply with quote

Well I am getting better but I do still miss her voice telling me what to ask about in school for Adrian or the doctors or whatever else we had to do. Friday was the first day I did not dig out my cellular phone(That is what they actually are folks! HA HA HA!! Even though I do have a "Smart Phone!) and call home at break to check on things. Not sure if I like that or not!!!

I know somewhere there will be another gal to help make us a new kind of whole again, but I am not in any rush to find her. Maybe find some friends for eating with first! I do miss that as well even if I was just eating a hamburger from a fast food joint, Cathy came out to spend time with me.
Luckily we talked about this time many times before she went Home. And she consistently said: "I want you to be happy." Which is making things a bit easier for me. She even tried to "kick me out" about a year before saying the same thing and "You never signed on for this!" I told her to stop and that I wasn't going to go anywhere! I am not going to say I never thought of going somewhere else(another woman). But I couldn't bring myself to break my vow to her and more importantly to God! I stood in God's house in front of about three hundred people and said I would take care of her weather or not we had money or health. Well we had no money and she had some pretty bad health. Still stayed the course! Glad I did too!! Even though the outcome was known, I knew what I was doing when I did it. And she showed me that there is alot more inside of you that can help you do what needs done when you have faith in something and will do whatever it takes to make things better!

It will take time and there just is no way to hurry it along. I will be fine but there are just things that seem to hit something and let me know I do still have a pain in the heart. I have been trying to do things outside of the apartment if I don't need to be here. I have gotten involved in a couple of organizations here locally and hope to have some good contacts and outcomes from them.

Then there is the trip for her marker. I have go and do that with her mom, it is only right her mom be in on the choosing. One day at a time, then another and another.................

Once again....Thanks for just being here!!! It really does help a guy out!!!!
And there are only a few places on the Web where I feel this "at home" with total strangers!!!!!! This is one of them!!!!

_________________
What do I know: I am just a line animal.
Back to top
View user's profile
slimjim
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: May 16, 2009
Posts: 7128
Location: Fort Worth TX

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 5:52 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

Arron, thanks for sharing. Take it one day at a time! You will find your next angel when the time is right!!

_________________
"To anger a conservative, lie to him. To anger a liberal, tell him the truth." - Theodore Roosevelt

"The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein
Back to top
View user's profile
Vince
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: May 25, 2005
Posts: 13132
Location: Brisbane AUSTRALIA

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 8:29 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

As Slim said Arron...thanks for sharing mate...and take it one day at a time.

When the time is right, you will "bump" into a lady that will become your new life...no need to rush into it mate...just enjoy your time with Adrian for now.

Cheers, Vince

_________________
Cheers, Vince Cheers

Illegitimi non carborundum
(Never let the bastards grind you down)

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

"Nulla Si Fa Senza Volonta."
(Without Commitment, Nothing Gets Done)
Back to top
View user's profile AIM Address MSN Messenger Yahoo Messenger Photo Gallery
Bushmaster
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Jun 12, 2005
Posts: 10301
Location: Ava, Missouri

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:22 am    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

Nodda problem...Just wish we could do more...

_________________
I have one nerve left and yer standin' on it...

DEMOCRACY Two wolves and one sheep voting on what to have for lunch...
LIBERTY A well armed sheep contesting the outcome of the vote...
Back to top
View user's profile
PaulS
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Feb 18, 2006
Posts: 3403
Location: South-Eastern Washington - the State

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:45 am    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

Take your time. You need to spend some time to recapture yourself as a person before you can join with another and be happy with yourself and your new choice.

_________________
Paul
__________________
Speer, Lyman, Hodgdon, Sierra, and Hornady = reliable loading data
So and So's pages on the internet = NOT reliable loading data
Always check data against manuals
NEVER exceed maximum listed loads
Back to top
View user's profile Send e-mail
stovepipe
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Sep 25, 2008
Posts: 4809
Location: Pine, Az.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:10 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

I agree with Paul....find yourself FIRST. I dove in too soon and wasn't ready and broke a nice gal's heart....that screwd with me even more!

Slow and steady bud. This is YOU time.

Ya also aint no stranger...yer a Brother of the Hunt and a fellow Nut! Cool
Back to top
View user's profile
Bushmaster
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Jun 12, 2005
Posts: 10301
Location: Ava, Missouri

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:36 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

And, I believe, you have a youngster to helpalong too.

_________________
I have one nerve left and yer standin' on it...

DEMOCRACY Two wolves and one sheep voting on what to have for lunch...
LIBERTY A well armed sheep contesting the outcome of the vote...
Back to top
View user's profile
vint2
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Nov 18, 2005
Posts: 1216
Location: Iowa

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:54 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

Please email when you get a chance.
Vint2 Embarassed

_________________
All it takes for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing!
Back to top
View user's profile Send e-mail Visit poster's website Photo Gallery
Erny
Member
Member


Joined: May 13, 2010
Posts: 130
Location: Brisbane

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:07 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

Glad to see you are improving, and as Stovepipe nailed it, we are no strangers, as as stranger knows nothing about you, let alone care about you, and it's obvious even to a blind man that a lot of people here do! Never met God, but when i am in trouble, (And that's a lot more times than i like) he is always the one i turn to first!.... United we stand, divided we fall!

Cheers.... Your mate erny!

_________________
Only accurate rifles are interesting.
If it aint broken, don't fix it!
In God we Trust. All else pays cash!
Back to top
View user's profile
1895ss
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Jul 21, 2005
Posts: 2613
Location: West of Here!!

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:05 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

I'm very, very sorry to here of your loss Arron, my prayers are with you. One day at a time ....... one day at a time and don't rush. Look after your young one and let things happen as they may, don't hurry things along, take your time.

_________________
A cruel truth is much more desirable than a really nice lie.
'Tis far better to walk alone than to follow a crowd or an a**hole going the wrong way.
Back to top
View user's profile Send e-mail
Arron
Super Member
Super Member


Joined: Nov 20, 2006
Posts: 351
Location: Cen.Iowa, by way of SWIowa

PostPosted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:03 pm    Post subject: Re: Better! Reply with quote

Yes folks I do have a little guy running around!!!Adrian he is five almost six. That is why I said I am not in any rush to find "her" if I meet her tomorrow then I meet her tomorrow! If I never meet "her" then I never do! It is just part of the game of life. All I can do is hold on and trust what I am being led to run with. I have NOTHING to prove to anyone other than myself! And When "she" finds us then it will the right time. I am just not going to go faster than I should.

I think of Cathy a fair bit everyday and sometimes it brings sadness or even a fun feeling. I know where she is and I am happy for her! Some day we shall meet again and maybe have a dance. I am a terminal "white guy" sorry but I have no "groove" ability!!! HA HA !! I stepped on her toes more times when we were dating than I care to admit. I finally told her...GO: dance!!! I'll watch!!!!! HE HE!!!

Anyway life is slowly finding a normal place!!! Work is being a stupid place again they are saying I am missing too many days!! Well WHOOPTY DO!!!! Wonder why the heck that IS!!!!!????? Haven't had decent vacation in almost 9 years and they wonder why I don't want to be there!!! Dang FMLA law!!!! I am glad it is there but man it really needs to be looked at so that long term caregivers of sick folks can get some down time and not have to have it STOLEN from them through FMLA... I mean I am glad it is there is has saved my backside a time or two. But there should be someway to get guy a few days off with pay somewhere. Oh well that is the way it is when we sell of our humanity to the corporate world of "money think groups" I just deal with it!!! " Just keep swimming!" Oh yeah I am not a good swimmer either!!! HA HA HA!!!!

_________________
What do I know: I am just a line animal.
Back to top
View user's profile
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic   Printer Friendly Page    Forum Index » General
Page 1 of 1
All times are GMT - 7 Hours



Jump to:  


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum
You cannot attach files in this forum
You can download files in this forum


Advertisements
 


Valid CSS! Valid HTML 4.01!
Click to check if this page is realy HTML 4.01 compliant for speed :)

All logos and trademarks in this site are property of HuntingNut.com.
The comments are property of their posters, all the rest © 2011 by HuntingNut.com
Interactive software released under GNU GPL, Code Credits, Privacy Policy

.: Upgraded to DragonFly 9.2 by Dizfunkshunal :.