Sad Duty

Vince · Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2017 9:25 pm Post subject: Sad Duty

Well, a rather upsetting and sad duty to be done. Had an 800 km drive last night after my 95 year old Mum passed away yesterday morning after a short illness. It has now fallen to me to organise the funeral and wake...not the easiest of tasks, but fortunately the Funeral Home is well versed in these preparations, which makes it easier.

The funeral is in six days time and then we have the problem of sorting out the Estate of which I am the Executor. I'm anticipating problems from two of my semi estranged brothers. One is pretty much a sociopath, and the other who appears to be only interested in how much money he will inherit. It's true what they say...you can pick your friends, but not your family.

Tremblay · Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2017 9:43 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

So sorry Vince prayers for you and the family.

tikkat3 · Super Member Joined: Jul 30, 2006 Posts: 800

Sad to hear Vince,
What a great innings
Hope all your memories are happy ones

Elvis · Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2017 10:03 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

sorry to hear that Mate.
kia kaha Bro....you make your decisions (I know you will be fair) set them out in plain speak for all to see then stick to your guns.
your Mum wouldnt have put you in that position of trust if she didn't have faith in your ability to carry it out.

RePete · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 4:54 am Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Sorry for your loss Vince and your family.

slimjim · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 8:58 am Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Our thoughts are with you and your family, Vince.

Bushmaster · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 9:54 am Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Mother's a precious and are a great loss.

DallanC · Site Admin Joined: Jan 18, 2005 Posts: 3572 Location: Utah

Very sorry to hear that. 95 years old is quite an accomplishment. Hope things all work out in the simplest and easy fashion for you.

-DallanC

dhc4ever · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 12:58 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Not good news Vince, but what a life.
My condolences to you and your family.
Funerals unfortunately are a fact of life as are the circling of sharks for the will.

gelandangan · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 4:46 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Condolences for your loss Vince.

Vince · Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 10:06 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Thanks everybody, your kind words are a great comfort.
Loosing one's mother is certainly painful, no two ways about that. I hate organising funerals, and this is the second one...death and taxes, two things we can't avoid.

As for my two brothers...if they decide to burr up, they will see a side to me that very few get to see, one they will not like.

Pumpkinslinger · Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2017 4:45 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Very sorry to hear that Vince. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

radar · Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2017 11:33 pm Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Sorry to hear your loss, she obviously had a long and happy life to reach that age.
Family - you can't pick them and it's illegal to shoot them

Vince · Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2017 12:04 am Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Thanks Mike and Andrew...your words are much appreciated.

You are totally right Radar...you can pick your friends, but not your family. I can name a number of people that are alive today simply because it is illegal to kill them mate.

Gil Martin · Posted: Sun Jul 16, 2017 6:38 am Post subject: Re: Sad Duty

Vince,
Sorry to hear of your loss and I can appreciate the challenges that you face. Take care and I wish you all the best.
Gil